The cycle of midwifery continues at Thrive. Come the first week of February, we are honored and excited to welcome Batya Friedland into the Thrive family as one of our apprentice midwives. We’ve been smitten with Batya since meeting her and reading her beautiful website (which we encourage you to check out). Batya is a world traveler, scholar, Rabbi, Buddhist Chaplain, dancer and poet. Our center coordinator Kelly was able to ask Batya a few questions about what gets her going, her visions of life and midwifery care, and what she does to make herself smile. Enjoy!
Kelly: Tell me about the moment you knew you were going to be a midwife?
Batya: 3 1/2 years ago I was in a very challenging point in my life. I had gone so far into the void of experience that I could not feel the meaning of my life. From that place, I received a vision of myself catching a baby. I didn’t even know the phrase ‘catching a baby’. I had never experienced anything like it, and the potency of it was so strong that I knew that is what I am here to do. Without having been to a birth, I enrolled in midwifery school 5 months later.
Kelly: What do you think makes a good midwife and who are the people you have looked up to?
Batya: I believe a midwife is someone who genuinely loves other people, and naturally cares about their well being. Midwives have all different personalities, but beneath the personality we are a beautiful gathering of gatekeepers; a welcome committee of high . A midwife is a witness, and attends to what is needed for the sake of health, happiness, and love. Though a midwife must have excellent self-care, the role itself is to benefit others and truly be of service. Midwives that have impacted my life are Selena Green, Ina May Gaskin, Elizabeth Davis, Terri Nash, and Angelina Martinez Miranda.
Kelly: If you could change one thing about maternity care in the US what would it be?
Batya: The cesarean rate is an emergency for the birth world and humanity. 1/3 births currently in the US are cesarean, and depending on which statistics you consider, only 12% of those are truly medically needed. This is what I would change.
Kelly: Our clients are always excited to know additional skills that our students and staff midwives have. Tell us about your skills outside of attending births?
Batya: I am a rabbi and buddhist chaplain, and am also an energy healing practitioner. I speak Spanish, Mandarin, Hebrew and Thai, and also offer placenta preparation and birth related ceremony. I also bring the skill of humor!
Kelly: Tell me how you make yourself happy when you are not at a birth.
Batya: I’m singing! I’m drumming! I’m communing with the ocean, I’m hiking. I’m playing the shruti box, my ukulele, writing poetry, and leading meditation retreats. I’m involved in a ritual somewhere. And overall loving my life.